Sunday 16 October 2016

Gentleness with Oneself

How shall we expect charity toward others, when we ae uncharitable to ourselves?  - Sir Thomas Browne
The injustice we do ourselves was aptly expressed by a member who said, "If someone treated me the way I treat myself, I'd sue."  While it may be true that I tend to be harder on myself than I am on others, in a larger sense, if I do not feel kindly towards myself, I cannot extend kindness to others.
I am allowed to make mistakes, and so are other people.  Errors can be pointed out and corrected without harsh measures or cruel words, without venomous self-recrimination.
These are the For Today writings for October 16th.  I am feeling a surge of gentle affection for myself this morning.  I am taking it easy and embracing my process of healing.

Blessed be.

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